Monday, November 7, 2011

Over the river and through the woods…

Everyone has people in their lives they sincerely cherish.  For many it's their spouse/partner.  For others, it's close friends or family members.  One of the most cherished people in my life is my grandma. 
 
Whenever I drive to my grandma's house, I pass through a thousand memories from my childhood.  
-          Kenmore Air Harbor where my grandma worked
-          Nu Lite Chinese restaurant where we'd go for Sunday dinners (no longer open...)
-          Bartell's drug store and their brown grab bags.

The nostalgia peaks when I turn the corner and head down the hill towards my grandma's house.  Although it’s seen better days, her house represents so many wonderful days from my youth.  It was a castle on an outdoor play land: Tree swings, brobdingnagian (yep, I just used it) rocks, wide-open fields, bikes rides, etc.  I spent a number of summers before the age of 12 with my grandparents and without my actual family – I felt so grown-up getting on that airplane by myself and heading up to Seattle!

The aura around my grandma and her house didn’t end in my pre-teen years.  I moved in with her for the summer between high school and college, and, although I was bigger and taller, she was still the same magical person from my youth.

I returned to Seattle for a visit this past weekend and spent a few hours with my grandma and my sister’s family.  Watching my niece zoom around the house reminded me of my childhood with my grandma in that house and the influence she’s had on my life.  Now, I may not think of my grandma every day, but she and my grandpa provided key elements to the back bone of my world: love, joy, happiness, family.  And I thought of how my mom and dad will be that influence to my niece; the thought brought a big smile to my face.

Even when she’s gone and her house is bought, sold, rebuilt, or replaced, I’ll still have those lessons and memories from a fortunate childhood.

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Goal: Write More

My promise to write often on this blog has fallen on hard times. With work and all the other personal stuff swirling around my mind, I've put writing on the back burner. Well, I'm attempting to move it back to the front burner!

I've made a goal to write every day for at least 30 minutes. Why? I enjoy writing, and I would like to do it more. Also, I think I get caught up trying to write these long posts and get a little frustrated when I can't finish them. The shorter period may not lead to more posts, but it will hopefully lead to efforts on longer posts that will be posted at a later date.

Upcoming thoughts:
Being a Best Man
Traveling - Singapore, Bali, and Vietnam
If marriage is easy, divorce should be more difficult
Why have I a recently been off of the cooking bandwagon.

And many others.

This is Day 1...let's see how it goes.